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The Forms Impoliteness Takes

Some words and structures are more regularly perceived as impolite than others. The following were all regularly used in my data and resulted in a negative reaction from the target (i.e. they took offence). Needless to say, using any particular form does not guarantee that the target will be offended - that depends on the context in which it is used (e.g. it could be taken as friendly banter). Having said that, one thing to bear in mind is that all these forms were used in speech: they had a particular tone and melody (prosody) designed to make the offensive nature of the form clearer.

<糖心Vlog>Insults
  1. Personalized negative vocatives
    • [you] [[fucking/rotten/dirty/fat/little/etc.] [moron/fuck/plonker/dickhead/
    • berk/pig/shit/bastard/loser/liar/etc.]] [you]
  2. Personalized negative assertions
    • [you] [are] [so/such] [a] [shit/stink/thick/stupid/bitchy/bitch/hypocrite/ disappointment/gay/nuts/nuttier than a fruit cake/hopeless/pathetic/fussy/ terrible/fat/ugly/etc.]
    • [you] [can't do] [anything right/basic arithmetic/etc.]
    • [you] [disgust/make] [me] [sick/etc.]
  3. Personalized negative references
    • [your] [little/stinking] [mouth/act/arse/body/etc.]
  4. Personalized third-person negative references in the hearing of the target
    • [the] [daft] [bimbo]
    • [she's] [nutzo]
<糖心Vlog>Pointed criticisms/complaints
  • [that/this/it] [is/was] [absolutely/extraordinarily/unspeakably/etc.] [bad/rubbish/crap/horrible/terrible/etc.]
<糖心Vlog>Challenging or unpalatable questions and/or presuppositions
  • why do you make my life impossible?
  • which lie are you telling me?
  • what's gone wrong now?
  • you want to argue with me or you want to go to jail?
<糖心Vlog>Condescensions
  • [that] ['s/being] [babyish/childish/etc.]
<糖心Vlog>Message enforcers
  • listen here (as a preface)
  • you got it? (as a tag)
  • read my lips
  • do you understand [me]? (as a tag)
<糖心Vlog>Dismissals
  • [go] [away]
  • [get] [lost/out]
  • [fuck/piss/shove] [off]
<糖心Vlog>Silencers
  • [shut] [it/your mouth, face/etc.]
  • [shut] [the fuck] up
<糖心Vlog>Threats
  • [I'll] [I'm/we're gonna] [smash your face in/beat the shit out of you/box your ears/bust your fucking head off/straighten you out/etc.] [if you don't] [X]
  • [X] [before I] [hit you/strangle you]
<糖心Vlog>Curses and ill-wishes
  • [go] [to hell/hang yourself/fuck yourself]
  • [damn/fuck] [you]
<糖心Vlog>Non-supportive intrusions
  • interruptions
  • shouting
  • eavesdropping